Bondage is about trust. If you are going to relax and give up control of your body, you need to be able trust the guy, There's always going to be the first session with a new guy - you know little about him, except what he's told you or what you've read on his web site. If you're worried that he might go beyond your limits, you won't enjoy yourself, and neither will he. So how do you make sure you can trust him? A few simple precautions will give you some reassurance. First of all, you should have discussed safer sex. How can you relax when he ties you up, gags you and threatens to fuck you if you haven't first established that he practises safer sex? The next step is make sure that he is identifiable. How? The easiest way is to leave his address and phone number with a friend or by your phone at home. If he's coming to you, introduce him to flatmates first, or give his details to a friend if you live alone. Make sure HE KNOWS you've done this so he knows he's identifiable. Any trustworthy bondage top will not mind you taking such precautions. Indeed, he should be encouraging you to do so. After all, if he can't trust you with the phone number he's given you why should you trust him with your body? There's a lot of advice and guidance available on the SMGays web site. Click on this link to visit their site.

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