The first thing to bear in mind is that EVERYTHING has to be consensual and safe. My sessions can be fairly mild and involve nothing more than mild bondage and sex, right through to heavier sessions. I'm happy to negotiate "special activities" Before I agree to meet someone, I like to find out what turns a guy on, what he likes and, just as important, what he DOESN'T like. At the start of the session, a SAFE WORD is agreed which, if used, stops all activity until both parties are happy to re-start. If I meet with a novice or a first timer, I would prefer him to let me know straight away if the session is "not for him". Why waste BOTH of our time? Sessions can last anything from a couple of hours for novices or guys new to me, right up to overnight. What happens towards the end of the session, depends on what is agreed beforehand. However, once limits are agreed, I expect BOTH parties to stick to them. I am also a stickler for cleanliness and have been known to end a session if I believe the guy is less than clean My personal limits are no yellow or brown and safe sex only

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